We've lived the dark side of hustle culture. Explore with us how this relentless pursuit of productivity erodes trust, diminishes our quality of life, and steals our sense of purpose. Let's redefine success
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It's 2013, and the image is etched in my mind forever. I'm hunched over my laptop, the cool metal a stark contrast to the turmoil inside me. Just a few doors down, my mom was losing her battle with cancer, each breath a painful reminder of the time slipping away. Yet, there we were, tethered to the glowing screen, convincing myself that just one more email, one more task, wouldn't hurt. But the emails kept coming, and the precious moments with my mom kept dwindling.
Ninety thousand hours. That's the staggering amount of time we're projected to spend working in our lifetimes. Schools diligently prepare us for productivity, but where's the curriculum for processing grief, for navigating life's inevitable heartbreaks? We certainly didn't find it. Instead, we were expected to compartmentalize seven stages of grief into a mere three days of bereavement leave before returning to my "dream job"—a" dream that felt increasingly hollow.
Lost and adrift, deadlines looming, we did what we thought we knew best: we threw ourselves into work, seeking control in the one area we felt we still had. We hustled harder. This relentless drive continued until 2021, when a company that had lauded my indispensability throughout a global pandemic abruptly deemed me disposable, laying me off a month after we moved thousands of miles away from my support system.
It took losing everything—my job, my income, my community—for me to finally see the devastating truth we had been blind to when my mom passed. No job, no amount of professional achievement, can ever fill the void of a life half-lived. We had bought into the lie that if we just worked harder and sacrificed enough, we would eventually reach a point of happiness and fulfillment. But the goalposts kept shifting because we were chasing a definition of success that wasn't mine to begin with. It was a definition we had inherited from the insidious beast we call hustle culture.
For me, hustle culture is the relentless and seemingly endless pursuit of external accomplishment at the expense of our internal and collective well-being. We've been caught in its grip for centuries, amplified by the Industrial Revolution's assembly lines and our shift towards relentless consumerism. Technological advancements meant to liberate our time have instead become chains, tethering us to a hyperconnected world that demands we move ever faster.
This manufactured urgency, this constant pressure to have more, do more, be more, and prove more, is causing a profound decay in our lives and our workplaces.
There's a decay in trust. Shockingly, fewer than one in five managers demonstrate strong leadership abilities. These same managers account for a staggering 70% variance in employee engagement. We're promoting individuals who can hit targets but lack the fundamental human connection needed to lead effectively. Is it any wonder that adult mental health and emotional well-being at work are at all-time lows?
Then there's the decay in quality of life. Nearly half of all millennials and Gen Z are juggling multiple jobs to make ends meet, and twice as many people over 65 are still working compared to 35 years ago. It's no surprise that a staggering 82% of the workforce is at risk of burnout. We're working longer hours, for more years, just to maintain a semblance of survival.
And perhaps most disheartening is the decay of purpose itself. While we work primarily out of necessity, young workers now rank meaningful work just as highly as their paycheck. Yet, six in ten of these same young workers believe that companies care solely about profit. Can we blame them when the average worker would need five career lifetimes to earn what a CEO makes in a single year?
We have a moral obligation to acknowledge that demanding people work harder isn't working. It's only accelerating this decay. But here's a fascinating truth about decay in nature: it's a vital part of regeneration. Fallen leaves nourish the soil, creating the conditions for new growth. We need to start envisioning our company cultures as living, interconnected ecosystems where each individual's purpose contributes to something larger than themselves.
We often talk about purpose at work through mission statements and value propositions, but we can't simply dictate purpose from the top down. Work holds different meanings for each of us. Instead, we need to reimagine it as a playbook we actively co-create.
Think about Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Initially, it presented self-actualization, or purpose, as the pinnacle, a prize to be reached only after our basic needs were met. But we were struck by the revelation that before Maslow westernized this concept, he learned from Indigenous communities that we are all born already self-actualized, inherently imbued with purpose simply by being alive, just like nature itself. Purpose isn't a destination to be found; it's a practice, a daily choice reflected in the decisions we make.
So, how do we start making different decisions to regenerate our company cultures and build a more human-first future of work?
Where trust has decayed, we need more than just livable wages and job security; we need psychological safety. We treat human potential as an infinite resource, but we are not machines that can endlessly reboot. We don't leave our humanity at the door. When we prioritize emotional intelligence in leadership development and skills training, people will shift their energy from self-preservation to the creative problem-solving and risk-taking that drive true innovation.
Where quality of life has decayed, we need to nurture true belonging within our teams. Leadership isn't about titles or hierarchy; it's about trust. Trust is built on clear expectations, encouraged mistakes, consistent feedback, and the recognition and reward of success. When people feel their voice matters within a larger community, they naturally work towards their goals with greater autonomy and accountability.
And where purpose has decayed, we need a new generation of leaders who think beyond short-term shareholder profit to long-term impact. If you want a company culture that truly engages and retains employees and lives up to its mission, vision, and values, success needs to be measured not just by quarterly financial gains but by what you're planting in the soil for future generations, long after we're gone.
The best part? We don't have to abandon the hard work that brought us here, nor do we have to sacrifice our capabilities. When we create conditions for purpose to thrive, employees perform better, companies become 23% more profitable, and experts predict that making work better will be a key driver of global economic growth. This isn't about shunning hard work; it's about hustling towards the right things, prioritizing people over profit, and fundamentally changing how we work so we can truly enjoy the limited time we have on this earth.
It's been nearly twelve years since my mom passed, but the image of that hospital waiting room remains vivid. It taught me a profound lesson: when we value productivity over presence, we lose more than just time; we rob ourselves of the richness of our daily lives, including this very moment. Our days constitute our lives, and on our deathbeds, we doubt any of us will wish we had worked more. Ninety thousand hours is far too long to endure without a sense of purpose.
So, we urge you, the next time you go to work, ask just one person what gives them a sense of purpose beyond their job title. Truly listen to their answer, and then share yours. When we collectively let go of outdated definitions of success and focus just as much on how we want to feel as on what we intend to achieve, we will build lives so rich in meaning that work becomes a fulfilling part of a life well-lived, but never the whole story.
About the Writer
Jenny, the tech wiz behind Jenny's Online Blog, loves diving deep into the latest technology trends, uncovering hidden gems in the gaming world, and analyzing the newest movies. When she's not glued to her screen, you might find her tinkering with gadgets or obsessing over the latest sci-fi release.What do you think of this blog? Write down at the COMMENT section below.
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